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TomLane
Been a bit quiet on here lately. Granted some of you may not have noticed.
Got a lot of work on at the minute which is good as it's keeping my mind occupied!
Going through a tough time with family & friends.
My Dad is currently going through a divorce with his current wife. As much as a witch as his wife is, don't like to think of my Dad being on his own at his age. Not to mention he's 2 years from paying off the mortgage on his house which he's now having to sell as neither can afford to stay on there on their own! Thankfully they've no kids together so no young ones to get hurt by the separation.
As well as this, my best friends Dad is going in for a major op next week to have a "lump/cyst" removed from his bowel. He previously had several cysts removed successfully a couple of years ago but one remained as they couldn't remove it under normal procedures. It has caused him no end of problems since & the doctors have finally said they will remove it through surgery as it could be cancerous. We're all absolutely bricking it, as much as we tell each other it will all be okay & it's the best thing to have it removed, it's worrying when the docs say he will be off work for 3 months minimum to recover!
Makes you realise how precious life is & how sometimes we're taking things too seriously & need to chill out & make the most of what we've got.
Anyway, there's always worse off than me as I'm aware. Just needed to put write it down to help get my head round it all. Thanks for reading guys.
Got a lot of work on at the minute which is good as it's keeping my mind occupied!
Going through a tough time with family & friends.
My Dad is currently going through a divorce with his current wife. As much as a witch as his wife is, don't like to think of my Dad being on his own at his age. Not to mention he's 2 years from paying off the mortgage on his house which he's now having to sell as neither can afford to stay on there on their own! Thankfully they've no kids together so no young ones to get hurt by the separation.
As well as this, my best friends Dad is going in for a major op next week to have a "lump/cyst" removed from his bowel. He previously had several cysts removed successfully a couple of years ago but one remained as they couldn't remove it under normal procedures. It has caused him no end of problems since & the doctors have finally said they will remove it through surgery as it could be cancerous. We're all absolutely bricking it, as much as we tell each other it will all be okay & it's the best thing to have it removed, it's worrying when the docs say he will be off work for 3 months minimum to recover!
Makes you realise how precious life is & how sometimes we're taking things too seriously & need to chill out & make the most of what we've got.
Anyway, there's always worse off than me as I'm aware. Just needed to put write it down to help get my head round it all. Thanks for reading guys.
we are all there for each other in the end even on line.