With flexible rubber seals you can actually get them to squash into the rubber a reasonable amount by hand. In my case I always feel the need to give them a decent nip with a spanner.Neither do I!
I recently installed several vanity units at my daughter's,the taps came with flexis and I screwed them straight to service valves. In view of some of the comments on here I went back and put tap tail adaptors on.Three of the compression joints went on fine but I couldn't stop the fourth from dripping even when really tight. I ended up taking it off but then couldn't get the olive off, fortunately I had a spare adaptor and put that on. I couldn't help feeling that maybe I was giving myself a lot of work for nothing but some of the posts made the doubt creep in. Just as a matter of interest, if the washer did fail eventually if screwed straight to a service valve would it just weep slightly or properly leak?ive fitted many flexi connectors straight on service valves in my time its i think about not over tightening,i normally spend 5 mins taking tools to van check when i come back,,then 5 mins invoicing,chatting and check again befor i leave.never had a come back.