No, not being silly. Just pointing out any lockshield, or any wheelhead valve will not limit the heat output of a radiator, unless it is turned to almost tight off.
And we are talking about a very small path for the water to pass through the valve to ensure rad doesn't heat properly, so the gap if left permanent will block eventually. That is why a rad valve will create noise if near off, - try this yourself on a rad to actually significantly achieve low heat flow/heat output to prove me right.
Where did you hear that ordinary valves are a way of controlling heat? If you fill a basin full of hot water from a tap turned on just a little, you will still get a basin of hot water, just slower.
TRVs don't work in same way, they work more or less by a on/off/on/off operation controlled by their sensor and not by a narrowing of the valve opening, like you suggest with a LS valve, although TRVs do gradually close and open. TRVs are not a flow limiter by design, but more a flow stopper.
I think it is being silly for your suggestion on a new home to have to constantly turn a lockshield (or wheelhead) to fine tune a rad in an attempt to lower heat in a lounge because the room stat is fitted in same room.
Note that the valves probably are both lockshield (that would be correct given that the lounge stat relies on that rad to be constantly on). So lockshield valves are not just something you can turn easily when you fancy. They are for isolation and balancing only and turning them near off won't work when on the following day the outside temperature drops 10 degrees.
I suggest the OP gets the builder to do the job properly and relocate the room stat. If lounge gets hot when the other rooms are not up to required heat, I think that tells you something about the rads size relation and whoever designed the system.
I accept a lot of what you say, Best, and I have one of these noisy valves myself on a rad that's closest to the boiler - drives me up t'wall.
We are only talking about reducing the output from one - or ideally both - of these rads, that's all, probably only by 20-30%. Just turning them down, that's all. Or are such rads uncontrollable?
I think this part is a bit (intentionally?!) misleading, tho': "If you fill a basin full of hot water from a tap turned on just a little, you will still get a basin of hot water, just slower." Yes, of course the water coming in to the rad will be at the same temp regardless of how far the valve is closed, but since there will be less of it, it's heat capacity will also be reduced - so the rad will emit less heat.
"Where did you hear that ordinary valves are a way of controlling heat? " Eh?! Are you suggesting that you cannot control the output of a rad with manual valves?
Sorry, best, I think that is also misleading. Whichever room has the room stat fitted should have 'manual' valves fitted and not a TRV. Yes? The next step - when balancing the whole house's system - is to tweak the lockshields to achieve the desired temp drop across each rad. Then, with all the other rads controlled by their TRVs set to each desired position, the 'room stat' location will almost certainly require the manual valve to also be tweaked so that it gives out the correct heat for that room, relative to the heats in the other rooms.
To do this you have to - gasp - adjust the manual valve.
(Sorry - becoming flippant... )
It'll be interesting to see what response BLB gets. To try and suggest to her - as some have done - that the lounge is simply the 'wrong' place to have the room stat is, I believe, misleading. There are pros and cons for any location (with the hall, it's that the rest of your house goes on fire if the JWs keep you chatting too long by the front door).
If the two rads in BLB's lounge are of different sizes, then I would be interested to know how well her house would behave if she shut off the smaller one completely. If this resolves the problem and her lounge is still warmed through evenly without this second rad, she could then even look at having it removed and freeing up some wall space.
I'd also like to know what would happen if she simply turned down both rads.