If it looks grey but is fairly soft and silver if you scratch it it's likely to be lead. Lead was still used up until about, say, 1970.
Anyway, the techniques used for jointing lead are not quite the same as for copper tubing and I would recommend you don't make the first time you try it on a customer's system.
There are a couple of people who are active posters (Last Plumber and JustinLead1 come to mind) who have mentioned they have leadwork skills. Probably best to upload a couple of photos and hope they drop in.