When a poster asks for free advice from a tradesman, effectively costing themselves or another plumber a paying gig, they should be a little humble and appreciative of the fact that we do it and in our free time. As it happens the OP saw the sense in getting a plumber in but I don't think anyone was particularly rude. If you have such delicate sensibilities then a job in this industry is probably not a good fit.
Some of us work 7.30am till 9pm trying to navigate the minefield that is penny pinching, deceitful "customers", merchants trying it on, quoting for free for jobs you don't get because the customer always goes with the cheapest, being robbed at the petrol pump and so on and so on.
Giving advice for free is something we do out of kindness, is not an obligation.
Sorry if you take offence to this but you won't make it as a plumber being so soft. If you are serious about being a plumber start looking at this as your industry too. It's a business, not a public service.
Bit confused, he is asking for free advice, I want to pay for my advice, where do I pay?
I am not delicate, I just can't stand the rudeness on this forum, this is just the tip of the iceberg, rudeness because people can't spell, get their words wrong, get mixed up, yes this is fair enough in a building site i.e. but not on a so called "respectable forum"
How is it costing you money? you arent giving up work to be on here are you? you aint loosing anything from giving out advice and probably it is helping you by giving you something to do when you are bored. so no he shouldn't be appreciative in my opinion.
he has asked for advice, you gave him the advice and he asked for more advice which to you made no sense. however to him it made sense and for his courage to give it a go and try something new he has been knocked down and been ripped apart for it. no this is not my belief of what a forum should be. should somebody be a little bit less knowlegeable then you then you should appreciate this and help that little more.
Seems like plumbers on here would slam the door on a blind man.
Now I have had several comments on here saying that I am too soft, I am not a good plumber because I don't be rude or joke about other peoples unfortunate situations and that the world isnt as nice as I think it should be.
I honestly know this but after receiving infractions for swearing, being told not to xxxxxx instead of swearing and being told there are strict rules on this forum, I do not understand how "plumbers arms" plumbers get away with being rude and bullying people when I got absolutely ripped into for swearing? does not make sense.
And this forum is a public service, you are helping out other plumbers "for free" and helping out the public and you may get help back. When did it become a business?
please get off your high horse and understand "forum" means
"an assembly, meeting place, television
program, etc., for the discussion of questions of public
interest."
Not ......
A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own or intolerant of people of different political views, ethnicity, race, class, religion, profession, sexuality or gender.