Hi John, I understand what you are suggesting, but as things stand I/the engineer have received different advice from different Vaillant support people, so I need to understand why they are making these different suggestions, hopefully once they respond to my email.
What they actually told me in the last email was:
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I would advise to remove the VR40 and wire the single system pump as shown in the example diagram below with a permanent 230V supply to the grey wires and use the oranges from all zone valves wired to the pump live."
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So, they are essentially wanting to turn the external pump on and off whenever any of the zone valves open or close, which I believe is what the engineer was originally considering doing, but then got confused looking at the schema diagram they had supplied (see attached) and called Vaillant, who told him he needed to use the VR 40, which he then ordered and installed the following day!
It's an interesting thought about using R4 for the external pump, however in the schema diagram it does appear to be associating R4 with the cylinder, so my gut feeling is it is likely to only operate in DHW mode, but as you say it may be worthwhile testing it, but I'll wait until I have more clarity from Vaillant. Maybe they'll suggest yet another way of wiring up the pump 😀
EDIT: Just seen your post from 11:36 last night, so it appears we agree about R4.